i am not a good listener.
i'm very into myself. and i know it. i'm not afraid to admit it. and i recognize this is wrong.
lately, when i'm talking with someone, i've tried to let them do most of the talking and i intently and sincerely listen. it's not easy. i can go off on something and keep talking about it forever. boring. no one cares.
i'm on an adventure to discover the little listening bug inside me. maybe a listening butterfly? i like butterflies.
see! there i go again. just chatting away.
in attempt to become a good listener, let me introduce...
Secrets.
the idea came from this lovely blog.
and she got the idea from this blog.
this is how it works:
this is an opportunity for anyone to share a secret(s) anonymously in the comments. It can be anything. I won't judge. I'm here to listen.
The Rules:
1. This is open to anyone who wants to participate, from regular follower to casual visitor.
2. Post a secret anonymously, no names please.
3.
I will not censor anything - so feel free to say whatever you need to. I
will delete the comment if it is harmful to someone else's feelings,
though.
4. If you feel uncomfortable with this, no worries, you don't have to share anything. no pressure at all.
5. Please, no rude comments and replies about others' secrets.
6. I am going to participate as well. One of the comments will be mine.
7. You may email me your secret if you feel more comfortable with that: lulavina (at) gmail (dot) com.
KATHRYN.